deCONstruction: Does it Always Lead to Destruction?

Deconstruction. I hesitate even using the word, because it is definitely a term widely used by many people on both sides of the conversations that surround it. And because it’s so widely used, it’s honestly also widely confused because it’s often misused.

Which is why in this post, I pick apart the word itself as it may reveal more about the process.


So, what is it, and is it harmful or helpful? Before we dive into the topic, would you agree with me in this simple prayer…


Father, we ask for wisdom as we seek to understand you and your great love for us. We humbly approach this topic as we humbly approach your throne, asking you for grace in the space of seeking you, knowing that apart from Christ, we will never reach you. We seek you and you alone for discernment and wisdom to know when we are removing you from your throne and placing our trust in men or religion or our own moral relativism. We trust you to help us in the conversations we’re having by drawing us closer to your heart, taking us deeper in your Word, and making us stronger in our faith. In Jesus’ Name, Amen


I have friends on both sides of this deconstruction conversation — friends who have deconstructed because they were hurt by the church and friends who have been hurt by loved ones who have deconstructed and not only walked away from their faith, but also their family.


Some feel it’s a freeing process, others say it’s a fleeing process. Are deconstructionists running TO God to forgive sin as they run AWAY from the church and those who’ve hurt them, or are they running AWAY from God as they run TO the world and a culture that will embrace them as it excuses sin?


You may still have no idea what “deconstruction” even is (as it relates to faith). You may know quite well what it is  because you’ve walked through it yourself or with someone. Or you may be wondering what the big deal is and why people on both sides need to keep talking about it.


It’s definitely been defined in different ways by different people, and because of that, can breed confusion, which is exactly why I believe the enemy is using it to breed confusion. He’s the master manipulator, and He’s working overtime these days to confuse, misuse, and abuse what God created, redeemed, and set apart as holy, honorable, and reflective of His glory.


The term dates back to the 1960’s and the work of philosopher, Jacques Derrida. It can be applied to a vast number of areas, but as it relates to faith and theology, it is a process that begins with doubting, questioning, and examining (which isn’t wrong or bad and can many times, deepen our faith); however, if done in a way that walks away from the firm foundation of scripture and Biblical truth, the end result is the literal deconstruction of one’s faith — picking apart and dismantling God’s Word and His Authority. 


This article is a great description of deconstruction, and in my opinion, it is a non bias and thorough definition of the process.


Got Questions Article on Deconstruction


So, in an effort to apply the principles of deconstruction to the word itself, even picking apart the word De-CON-struction, reveals a three letter word in the center of the word that in my opinion, represents the enemy who loves to weasel his way smack dab into the middle of process. Satan is the original CON artist (a person who cheats or tricks others by persuading them to believe something that is not true). He is the father of lies, and his con artistry started in the garden when he said to Eve, “Did God really say?” (Genesis 3:1) He’s been planting seeds of doubt ever since.


Upon further scrutiny of the word DE-con-STRUCTION, we see, WHEN the enemy is at the core of it, what’s left is DESTRUCTION. WHEN we know his master plan is to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), we can recognize his tactics and combat them with the Word of God and the Good News of the Gospel as we claim victory over our enemy through Jesus Christ who sets us free!


I just heard this quote from Pastor Riggins of New Life Church on Sunday, “Satan tempts us to destroy our faith, but God tests us to deepen our faith.” We must recognize the difference. Are we believing lies or standing on truth? We must be rooted and established, firmly planted in the Word of God, to discern God’s truth from Satan’s lies so when the enemy tempts us with doubt, “Did God really say?”, we can answer him with scripture and keep him where he belongs — under our feet and out of our heads!


Now please hear my heart. I have friends going through deconstruction or watching someone deconstruct. Some of them sisters in Christ and some of them non believers. In fact, those friends would likely even define deconstruction differently from one another and maybe differently from me. Yes, some are walking away from their faith in Christ entirely, while others are simply refining their faith.


I write this not to attack anyone going through the process. I am, however, and will continue to attack and wage an all out war on the guy who can sometimes be at the center of the process, the original CON artist, the father of lies, the enemy our souls — satan himself. He has no authority over you and me. He is a defeated foe simply trying to get us to doubt all we know. Trust God. He is trustworthy. Cling to Him. He will not lead you astray. People (even people in the church) may have hurt you or abandoned you. God will never leave you nor forsake you. (Deuteronomy 31:6)


I want leave you, as I often do, with several other resources that have been super helpful for me as I learn more about deconstruction and navigate the conversations I’m having about it. Obviously, these resources are apologetic in nature (defending the God of the Bible and His Word that became flesh in the person of Jesus Christ, His only son, sent to set us free from the bondage of sin and reconcile us to Him).


Additional Resources:


Just Thinking Podcast Episode: The Church and Culture


John Cooper’s thoughts on deconstruction, the definitions, the dangers, and why he’s so brazen about it


Unbelievable Podcast: A discussion with Alisa Childers and Lisa Gungor, two women in the Christian Music Industry who went through deconstruction and reconstructed very differently

(If you don’t have time to listen to the interview and its entirety, let me encourage you to listen from about 19 minutes to about 25 minutes. I love this portion of Lisa’s story, from the sea doubt she found herself in to the lego analogy, it all painted such a clear picture of the Gospel and God’s great love for us.)


Alisa Childers and Tim Barnett (of Red Pen Logic) attempt to answer the question, “Is Deconstruction a New Cultural Religion?” in this podcast episode.

It’s really helpful to differentiate between an individual person who is “deconstructing” (I put that in quotes because I don’t think in that situation it is the best word to use) vs. the deconstruction movement with an agenda to pull people away from God altogether. As my post aims to call out the con artist, satan, it is not meant to criticize individuals.